Kinksy Butt Play Dating App | Find Your Butt Play Partner with Kinksy

Built for butt play enthusiasts

Find partners who adore rimming, plugs, and amazing butts, with plenty of lube and smiles.

Whether you’re curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, Kinksy makes it easier to find partners who share your butt play interest.

Add butt play to your kinks and only be matched with others looking for a butt play partner too.
Filter by location, age, and gender; so you'll only see relevant profiles.
Everyone on Kinksy has at least 1 photo (not necessarily of their face), and a brief description.
Choose how you connect: Require an introduction message; or prevent messages unless you like back. You decide.
We care about you and your privacy. We encrypt your email address, don't spam, and offer secure messaging.

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What is Butt Play?

Butt play covers a wide range of activities that focus on the anus and surrounding area: rimming, fingers, plugs, beads, toys, and prostate stimulation. For many people, this area is packed with sensitive nerve endings that can produce deep, intense sensations very different from other kinds of stimulation. Prostate owners may experience powerful pleasure from internal pressure, while others enjoy the feeling of fullness, stretch, and control that anal play can bring.

The psychological element is just as important. Butt play can carry a sense of taboo that makes everything feel more daring and charged. Power dynamics are common too—being opened, filled, or denied can mesh beautifully with D/s, humiliation, or service themes. Whatever the flavor, good communication, preparation, and patience are what turn “oh no” into “oh yes.”

Key safety points: use lots of lube, go slowly, relax the muscles, and never force insertion. Only use body-safe toys with flared bases or other design safeguards, because bodies will happily pull things inward. Talk about limits, health considerations, and what feels good or not. With trust, humor, and care, butt play can shift from intimidating to intensely pleasurable, offering a whole new spectrum of sensation and intimacy.

Kink activity must always be strictly safe, sane, and consensual; and utilise a safe-word.

What Makes Kinksy Special

Kinksy offers a modern butt play dating experience, far better than old personals or classifieds. We help you build genuine contacts who share your kink.

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Your Specific Kink

Find people interested in Butt Play

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Maintain your privacy: You set your location & decide what to share. You can filter who can find or message you.

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