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What is Chastity Play?

Chastity play revolves around limiting access to someone’s genitals or ability to orgasm, often using a physical device like a cage, belt, or lock. The heart of the kink is control and anticipation: the locked partner stays aroused but restrained, while the keyholder decides when—and whether—any relief is allowed.

Scenes can last from a short session to extended periods, depending on safety, comfort, and lifestyle. Some pairs use chastity as a playful tease, locking up for a few hours before a date night. Others build long-term power-exchange structures where the device becomes a symbol of commitment and control. The keyholder may send suggestive messages, tease physically, or set tasks and rituals that keep the locked partner’s focus on them.

Hygiene, fit, and health are vital. Devices must be body-safe, properly sized, and removed immediately if pain, swelling, or other issues arise. Communication about how often removal happens, what kind of stimulation is allowed, and whether orgasms can occur with the device on sets clear expectations. When done responsibly, chastity play becomes a slow-burn experience full of simmering desire, trust, and the intoxicating awareness that someone else literally holds the key to your pleasure.

Kink activity must always be strictly safe, sane, and consensual; and utilise a safe-word.