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What is Collar & Leash?

Collar and leash play adds a tangible symbol of power exchange to a relationship or scene. A collar can represent belonging, submission, partnership, or ownership, depending on how partners define it. A leash then extends that symbolism into movement and control: someone leads, someone follows.

For submissive partners, wearing a collar can feel deeply grounding, like slipping into a role where expectations and devotion are clear. It may be worn only in private during scenes, in public at kink events, or even discreetly day-to-day as an ongoing symbol. For dominants, fastening a collar or taking up a leash can feel like a ritual of responsibility and authority, a reminder that power comes with care.

Scenes with a leash might involve guided walking, gentle pulls to direct posture, or being positioned for tasks or play. The energy can be soft and affectionate or commanding and strict. Safety matters: collars should not be too tight, and pressure on the neck must be handled with great caution. Some people prefer chest harnesses or waist belts for more secure pulling. With consent, clarity, and respect, collar and leash play becomes a powerful, sensual ritual that expresses “we choose this dynamic together.”

Kink activity must always be strictly safe, sane, and consensual; and utilise a safe-word.