Kinksy Sadism Or Masochism Dating App | Find Your Sadism Or Masochism Partner with Kinksy

Built for sadism or masochism enthusiasts

Find sadists and masochists who passionately crave giving and receiving pain in safe, sane, and consensual intensity.

Whether you’re curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, Kinksy makes it easier to find partners who share your sadism or masochism interest.

Add sadism or masochism to your kinks and only be matched with others looking for a sadism or masochism partner too.
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What is Sadism Or Masochism?

Sadism and masochism (S/M) are about enjoying pain within a safe, sane, and consensual kink context. A sadist derives pleasure—physical, emotional, or psychological—from giving pain, while a masochist enjoys receiving it. Many kinksters find themselves on one side; some discover they have a bit of both and enjoy switching roles depending on the partner or scene.

S/M can involve spanking, flogging, caning clamps, scratching, and more. For some, the appeal is endorphin rush and altered states; for others, it is about power, trust, or emotional release. A sadist might savor the sound of a moan or the sight of reddened skin; a masochist may relish the challenge of enduring a smack, or the deep floaty feeling that comes as pain transforms into something else.

Consent and negotiation are non-negotiable. Partners should discuss types of pain, intensity, limits, and safewords. Aftercare is often particularly important in S/M, as both giver and receiver may experience strong emotional shifts. Done ethically and attentively, S/M can be a powerful form of connection and self-discovery.

Kink activity must always be strictly safe, sane, and consensual; and utilise a safe-word.

What Makes Kinksy Special

Kinksy offers a modern sadism or masochism dating experience, far better than old personals or classifieds. We help you build genuine contacts who share your kink.

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