Kinksy Service Submission Dating App | Find Your Service Submission Partner with Kinksy

Built for service submission enthusiasts

Connect with service subs and appreciative tops who see chores, rituals, and caregiving as deeply erotic devotion.

Whether you’re curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, Kinksy makes it easier to find partners who share your service submission interest.

  • Add service submission to your kinks and only be matched with others looking for a service submission partner too.
  • Filter by location, age, and gender; so you'll only see relevant profiles.
  • Everyone on Kinksy has at least 1 photo (not necessarily of their face), and a brief description.
  • Choose how you connect: Require an introduction message; or prevent messages unless you like back. You decide.
  • We care about you and your privacy. We encrypt your email address, don't spam, and offer secure messaging.
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What is Service Submission?

Service submission is a D/s dynamic where the submissive expresses devotion through practical acts of service. This can include cleaning, cooking, organizing, running errands, preparing outfits, setting up play spaces, or offering massages and baths. The submissive’s satisfaction comes from being useful, attentive, and aligned with the dominant’s needs and preferences.

For dominants, receiving service can feel luxurious, supportive, and deeply bonding. It is not just about outsourcing chores; it is about the emotional charge that comes from someone choosing to care for you in this structured way. Rituals—like how drinks are presented, how greetings work at the door, or how a room is prepared—can deepen the dynamic and provide a comforting sense of order.

Negotiation should cover expectations, limits, time commitments, and how service will be appreciated or corrected. Service subs may need assurance that their efforts are seen and valued, while dominants may need reminders to express gratitude and provide clear instructions. When nurtured thoughtfully, service submission becomes a quiet but powerful expression of love, loyalty, and kink.

Kink activity must always be strictly safe, sane, and consensual; and utilise a safe-word.

What Makes Kinksy Special

Kinksy offers a modern service submission dating experience, far better than old personals or classifieds. We help you build genuine contacts who share your kink.

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