How Kinksy Works
Welcome Message
Welcome to Kinksy, the kink dating app made for kinksters, by kinksters. We match you with people who share your kinks: With over 50 kinks to choose from, you’ll match with others who understand you and share your specific interests. Whether you’re looking for a long-term relationship or a play partner, Kinksy has your needs at heart.
Privacy & Control
Your preferences and privacy come first. You decide where you want to connect: in your city, across your country, within your continent, or globally. Want to control who can communicate with you? We offer you the freedom to allow only intro messages, likes, or both! To keep things private, every chat on Kinksy is protected with encrypted messaging, so your conversations stay between you and your match. And when it comes to location, you’re always in control: you set your own location, and it’s never shown exactly.
And we cut out the spam, by only showing your profile to people who meet your specific criteria.
Our Mission
Kinksy gives you exactly what you need to find and connect with other Kinksters just like you. Below is a breakdown of our features:
Explore & Connect
- • Choose from 50+ kinks to find others who share your specific interests
- • Specify whether you’re looking for a relationship, a play partner, or both
- • Match locally, or explore connections within your country, continent, or globally
Customise Your Messaging
- • Set your boundaries with flexible message controls
- • Choose how others can reach out:
- • Intro messages only – get a personalised message before matching
- • Likes only – let people express interest before messaging
- • Likes & intros – open up more ways to connect
Privacy & Freedom
- • Encrypted messaging for total privacy
- • Stay anonymous — you decide what to share
- • Quick signup with just an email (encrypted so even staff can't see it)
Why You’ll Love Kinksy
- • Everyone has at least one photo and some basic info
- • Built for authentic connections within the kink community
- • Connect without judgment and explore new dynamics safely
